Discernment Counseling

Struggling with the decision to separate, divorce, or stay together? I offer discernment counseling to help couples gain clarity and make decisions about next steps.

When your relationship feels stuck, painful, or uncertain, it can be hard to know what to do next. One may be leaning toward ending the relationship, while the other is holding on and hoping to repair it. That’s where discernment counseling helps.

Discernment counseling helps couples decide whether to stay in the relationship, separate, or commit to couples therapy and real work on the relationship.

Unlike traditional couples counseling, which assumes both partners are ready to work on the relationship, discernment counseling meets couples where they are—often in very different places.

I provide a structured and supportive space for each person to reflect, speak honestly, and explore your individual hopes and concerns.

Compassionate, Neutral Support—Not Taking Sides

As a seasoned therapist with nearly 30 years of experience, I provide a calm, nonjudgmental space where both voices are heard. I don’t push you to stay together or break up. My role is to help you gain clarity and confidence about your next steps—whatever they may be.